Things haven’t been as quiet as I hoped. The restraining order hasn’t been filed just yet (though the cops did tell Mes to not come back) and he’s now constantly trying to come up with as many reasons as he can to come over and cause drama. He stopped by to give a doll to his daughter and ended up staying for hours. He passed out on the couch and raided the fridge a few times. His ex-wife (lets start calling her Nee) told me and her son (lets call him Darko he’s my best friend and the reason I’m here) not to cause trouble. So we sat on the porch and waited to kick his ass if he did anything. It ended up with him getting mad about everyone sitting on the porch and that no one was sitting with him. He left screaming at Nee telling her that everything is her fault and that he was going to get her kids taken away. After that the cops came again turns out he called them saying that we were beating the 4 year old girl and smoking reefer around her. They just talked for a minute and then left. I’m at a point now where I’m seeing a bit of a pattern and I know he’s not going to stop till we come to some type of climax. The thought that goes through my head is that I want to control that climax. I can get him to flip out and do something to get him arrested but I'm not sure if causing a lot of drama is right. In the end this isn’t even my family or my battle and there are kids involved and too many complications for me to make an informed judgment about this. What ever I do I need to think fast cause last time he was here he had a gun in his truck and he’s mentioned to a lot of people his intention to turn me to hamburger. Cross your fingers for me.